Thursday, April 28, 2011

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Testimonials

and home phone today . I rarely home on the phone a year . A year later the number of times the phone number with your fingers can get down. Having said that maybe you can say I am Unfilial it. Oh, how do you comment on with me, I know what on the line. do nothing to be ashamed enough. When finished today and home telephone. I do not know how too , hanging off the phone , click on the brush the tears fell. I think this is because of this, so I rarely called home .
the hearts of the mountains , then piled no place to spit . often say they do not know when to be invisible to the idea Swallowed . do not know where to start. They say home is our children's haven. can I have been hiding , heart in hiding .
dad told me to thrift, mother Called my attention to the body. uncle asked me the cause . Grandmother asked my wages. There are all family relatives and friends over one by one to ask . I really really want to reply to them .... but I do not have a fully correct answer . is so perfunctory. faint , feeling a lot of pressure I had . I do not know two of the few can afford several kilograms .

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

A couple divorce bill

 I saw an article somewhere else, after reading my tears, If I had to face this hotel, maybe I would not choose to divorce, if each The couple divorced in the choice of careful consideration before the final can imagine, if you first enter this restaurant dinner, the final dinner of divorce, may avoid many tragedies.
he married her a full 10 years between husband and wife no longer any impulse and sentiment, he increasingly felt she was almost a process of and obligations, he tired from her. A new tune in particular units into a young and lively girl, he launched a frenzied attack, he suddenly felt that she was his second spring. After much consideration, he decided to divorce her. She seems numb, calmly promised him two people into the civil affairs department.
procedures have been very successful, to go out, the two are independent people have the freedom to people. I do not know why his heart suddenly feel kind of empty, he looked at her: ; She looked at him: ; He nodded his head, one after the two went quietly to the hotel for divorce.
He looked at her: favorite dish, usually by the President, Ms. point favorite dishes, called 'last memory'. steamed fish, leavened mushrooms, mixed with fungus, remember, do not let Cong Jiangsuan, I love him ... ... this gentleman does not eat them. looked at him.
He stared. Married 10 years, he really did not know what his wife like to eat. His mouth open, stunned embarrassment was there.
waitress smiled: This 'last memory' We'd better not eat it. to drink our hotel for all divorcees specially prepared dinner - cold drinks bar, which is all to the people do not reject the choice. She nodded her head: blue one, all nuggets; a full glass of red, steaming.

quiet private room, two people sit relative, and sometimes did not know what to say.
the scene of a woman flowers? Now everything is over, couples do not succeed When my friends and to leave on good, the last President to send roses to it. her in the flick, has emerged out of sight 10 years ago, the scenario he gave her flowers. At that time, they had just come to this unaccompanied provincial capital, nothing, everything from scratch. During the day, they looked for work, hard work; night, in order to increase revenue, she went to dinner out of stalls, he went to the people washing the dishes. Late late, they only went back to rent in the basement of the house was less than 10 square meters. Days of bitter, but they are happy. To the provincial capital's first Valentine's Day, he bought his first red rose, she had shed tears of happiness. 10 years, all is well up, but two people have toward the separation. She wondered as she thought, tears filled his eyes, she waved, said: Then he remembered that he did not buy her five or six years have been a rose. He waved his hand: Two people were thrown into the drink cup, rose even dissolved in the drink.
what needs to call me directly.

pumping pumping her hand, no twitching, no longer move. Two people quietly on the TV with, and what did not.



live in her,
waitress came over: little, this is our fourth course, called 'the choice of the heart'. Please return to private rooms. room, lights still. He pulled her hand: She bit her lip: , pay.
waitress came recently handed a two delicate red one list: also the hotel's last gift, called 'eternal bill', asked the two always kept it. down.
Four Seasons urged attention to the body; care and concern; sixty Pomu smile; morning and afternoon care for children; all directions to maintain your credibility; nine as the kitchen for your favorite dish; years of lost youth for you ... ... This is your wife.
talk of grievances; stay in the face of the vicissitudes of life; Qigu eight Aunt obligations; eight eight-under on the twists and turns; nine distinctions and a defect in the human; from time to time on the home pair of the truth ... ... this is your husband.
two people hugging, crying aloud.
Results End accounts, he and many thanks her manager, walked home hand in hand. to see who their happiness back, the manager smiled and nodded.








Monday, April 11, 2011

Love you, as long as you happy , do not you remember me ``

 Love you, as long as you happy, do not you remember me
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cold February, the snow mountains in the vast, hard man and a woman moving forward, they are outdoor sports enthusiasts,
similar to the mountains to see snow on the way encountered unexpected snowstorm, lost.

women like men, not between them declare it, because before a woman is only in the eyes of men to capture the information
to like, but not sure. They are both proud and afraid to hurt people, because sure, it is not the table
white.

snow, they hand in hand, spoke words of encouragement, hard snow in the knee of the forward, keep walking, and often could not walk a few steps will be wrestling
, clothing has been wet, cold winds were, both of lips blue.

great physical exertion, but women are still walking and laughing, the men looked at women, a lot easier. Despite all smiles, but
they know that death is approaching tripped. Been three days, the endless snow is still around, physical
has been overdrawn, worst of all, food has become less and less. To survive, all the food they are concentrated to a
woman's backpack, the woman a good plan to control the daily food intake to cope with the worst situation.

more unfortunate things happen, because the snow is too deep, in passing through a forest, the woman fell into the snow cave sprained foot, the whole
a swollen leg, hold back every step great pain. Men have been extremely tired, no woman could move back,
Moreover, women also refused to back her man, she was very clear, this is the case, they will die with in the mountains.

discretion over again, only by the men walk the walk alone to find the way out of the mountains to seek help.
support a good man tent as a woman, settle down.
they clean each other's backpack, the woman told the man He took the hand of a woman,
said,

until then, they still did not express their love to each other, they are sensible people, this case may be a break up is
Farewell, Farewell if the confession is the date of the day and too cruel. Men do not know
can go out, if they survive in only one, that why the other side with a life time to forget a lost love one
it? Friends remember an ordinary enough.

man woman looking at an infinite attachment
each going and men have done under the mark, he bent forward to finding relief, back then a woman, hungry, eating a biscuit
, thirsty, and eat two of snow. Getting slower and slower rate of men, he reminded himself, can not stop, as long as the stop means death
death, the woman has no save, and his efforts to uphold, he told himself, must be out. Finally, after a man ran out the most
trace strength, fall, loss of consciousness, he thought, a woman's food is enough? Can shore it?

wake up, man found himself lying on the rescue team tent and friends found that they did not time out of the mountains, mountain rescue teams had entered
search for a long time. In fact, the beginning
rescue team has not found a man, they first find the woman's tent, and then follow the sign left by man
, found the dying man almost frozen.
man's body temperature gradually recovered, he asked
stay for a man,
rescue team leader in a trembling voice, ;
... ...

Three years later, a man married a woman and as like outdoor sports, like the cute girl smile. Woman left
, the girl walked with men, the most uncomfortable days, gradually happy man, with feelings, they come from a
, sometimes, they will miss with regret the passing of a woman, more cherish the feeling.
captain then took part in the rescue of his wedding.
After the wedding, the captain came to a woman's grave, a woman in the photo, the smile is still beautiful. The captain said to the woman
captain in tears, in fact, that year, the captain lied.
women are not frozen to death, the rescue team found her, she lay good tent, sleeping bag cover, very good cover man for
her, she could not bear to move.
woman is starving to death, and opened her first bag, and only a few pieces of flat stone, there is no hard tack, and the remaining compression
biscuits, not eight, only four only. Women, all of the remaining food is left to the man, she really,
love him.
captain found a woman, her hands Jinjinzuanzhao already stiff piece of paper.

Thursday, April 7, 2011

【 New Regulations for Wage

 Wen Jiabao, the Chinese people have the dignity to make new rules】 【wage Share of: warm happiness has been shared 1 time Comments (0) copy the link to share the report reproduced welcome to reprint
Premier Wen Jiabao at the Great Hall of the morning to 5 at the Third Session of the Eleventh National People's Congress to make government work report. Two hours, ten thousand words articles, wonderful scene of discourse. ; ; ; ; ; 【deputy department level enterprises, the following pieces of retirement shall be the implementation of this article】wages to the current title of a reward, as the factory, the senior technical post quota , especially high. Meet the conditions of workers far more than the quota limit, resulting in qualifications, education, ability, effort, similar results among workers (especially SMEs) the income gap is too large: a difference of nearly half of senior and junior. But also seriously affect the retirement benefits. To run the factory, to rely on more than 90% of the workers. Professional qualifications of workers set wages, not only can not really arouse the enthusiasm of the workers, most workers because the income gap is too large titles, seriously affecting the efficiency, in particular, there is no higher title hopes Jin, a lot of complications. Because the workers are people, there are also psychological imbalance. Driven by the psychological imbalance, resulting in serious loss of workers, the workers can not quit, the adverse consequences will be more and more, so every time the senior professional title engagement of workers, between workers, the workers and leaders, workers and employment committee contradictions, to be an opportunity of corruption. Many of the original to be good workers, so enemies, and even spent a triad, add Discipline Inspection Commission and other departments of trouble and operating costs. Title of the hour because of the income gap, with too many artificial colors, and the resulting sense of injustice most strongly, wages affect the stability of the title of reward policy and undermine the fair, damage cadre of serious construction of harmonious society threat. To prevent the unfair distribution has become increasingly livelihood issues from economic problems turned into serious social problems. Therefore, through wage reform, Establishment of the dialectical unity of efficiency and fairness of income distribution, is imperative. 【Whatever the senior workers, or mid-level workers is the same work there is no difference between car drivers and no difference. Doing the same work. 】
Second, the income of workers
income from workers: basic wages, seniority pay, performance pay, exceptional benefits and other accessories.
1. Basic wage: Workers in accordance with the worker eligibility criteria: 15 years of service of 2,000 yuan, 2,300 yuan 15 years of service, 20 years of service 2,500 yuan, 2,800 yuan 25 years of service, 30 years of service to 3,000 yuan, 40 years of service 3500. (With the national economic growth)
2. Seniority wages (including length of service): 30 yuan per year, with the length of service increase. The implementation of the wage length of service is not only caring for older workers, more importantly, to encourage life-long from the workers, is conducive to the construction workforce and workforce stability.
3. Working wages.: The principle of subsidy according to the actual Anlaoquchou; is to encourage more workers to work, in particular, energetic young workers, who labor to produce more and more and get their due reward, not only is the psychological comfort, but also on their encouragement.
4, pay for performance: the month and annual bonus (instead of the title of wages). This part of the prize money, only about 10% of total wages. Competition than the performance we recommend a year in prize money, not for life. Actively to each worker every year there is hope. Mainly motivate produce good results, excellent quality too, not only to encourage more work, but also to inspire working people.
5, Premium Allowance: all workers recognized the special quality of workers, no quota restrictions, counties and cities assess and verify the above departments high standards, like the collar counties receive State subsidies / government subsidies, not tenure . Mainly those in the labor work in the special research results and promote the well can be determined according to the size of the scope of class, or on national and provincial, city and county to determine different standards, so that those who talented workers receive their due reward, the real incentive to play with.6. worker's pension; according to length of service, for each year of 100. And so on length of service pension for 10 years is 1,000 yuan. To participate in the pension for 20 years is 2,000 yuan, to work for 30 years of pension is 3,000 yuan, length of service pension for 40 years is 4000 yuan. Regardless of senior workers, mid-level workers, or the ordinary workers. Pensions are equal. Civil service should be equal regardless of rank. And workers in the same pension 【deputy department level enterprises, the implementation of this document the following retirement be】
Within three years of implementation of the completion.

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Turn What two people would be suitable

 Whether you have a boyfriend, have a girlfriend, came over to read it, writing is really the sort.

you find it?
feeling of love, always feel very sweet in the beginning,
I felt much more a stay, one more person to help you share,
you finally no longer alone, at least one person thinking of you ,
Lianzhao you, whether to do something,
together as long as is good ....< br> .... but slowly, with the deeper understanding of each other,
you begin to discover each other's shortcomings,
so the problem occurred one after another,
you start trouble, tired, or even want to escape,
Some say love is like picking up rocks,
always want to pick up to a suitable,
but how do you know when to pick it?
him / her for you, then you and for him / her up?
fact, love is the same as terrazzo,
might just pick up, you is not so satisfied,
but Remember that people are resilient,
a lot of things can be changed,
as long as you determination, courage,
with the unknown stone everywhere to pick up,
not as good to what we already have polished stone, you start to wear it?

Many people think that because of the feelings faded,
so people would become lazy.
wrong!
inertia is first to be conquered people,
so the feeling will pale.
occasion at a dinner,
was suggested to eat more shrimp on the body good,
this time there is a middle-aged man suddenly said, She said that shrimp eat ten, I give her stripping twenty!
Now, if she wanted me to help her peel shrimp shell, kidding! I did not even help her interest in clothes off, and also peeling shrimp shell le! Got it?
No wonder more and more people just want to talk about a lifetime of love,
has refused marriage.
because marriage easy to become lazy.
If everyone
lazy speech,
too lazy to listen,
too lazy to create surprise,
too lazy to gentle,
that between husband and wife or lover,
how will gradually drifting away not silent it?
* So remember:
dynamic love,
modest hospitality is the need for irrigation,
love, is not lazy Oh!
have a couple, similar to dinner after work, shopping,
but the girl because the company delayed the meeting,
when she arrived, when Mao Zhaoyu has more than 30 minutes late,
His boyfriend is very upset and said:
you every time so now I have not had any mood,
I will no longer wait for you!
instant, the girl finally burst its banks collapsed,
she was thinking: Maybe they never had
the same future in the same place, another couple is facing the same situation;
when the girl arrived late for half an hour,
his boyfriend, said: take off his jacket covered in girls,
at the moment, the girl in tears flow
but her tears on my face is warm.
you feel it?
fact, love, hate is often only one of our idea!
love not only timely but also to understand tolerance,
is a lot of things may just change your mind too!
understand?

When someone loves you, and you think he is good.
that does not mean you would choose him.
We always said: answer him, because you do not know.
Yes, we always thought that we would love to find a man she loved.
But later, when we suddenly look back, we will find what they once naive.
if never started, how do you know she will love love that person?
fact, love the feeling, is to experience a lot of things together until after discovery.
Perhaps everyone would like to find their own one hundred percent of the partner mind,
but you have not thought 『around you will not already been paid to you in silence for a long time, but you just do not find it? 』
So, still a closer look at the people around you! He may have been waiting a long time
When you love someone when you love to just eight absolute good.
all the expectations and hopes are only Qi Bafen; the remaining two or three points to love yourself.
If you continue to love even more, is likely to give each other a heavy pressure, so that each breath,
completely lost the love of fun.
So remember,
drink no more than six drunk,
eat no more than seven full,
love a person no more than eight

If you are as Love lost, perhaps the following words can give you some inspiration:
love a person, to understand, but also open solution;
to apologize, but also thanks;
to admit, but also error correction; < br> to be considerate, but also understanding;
is to accept, rather than endure;
is tolerance, not condoned;
is to support, not dominate;
is sympathy, not questioned; < br> is talk, not complaints;
is memorable, but not forgotten;
that communicate with each other, and not explain everything;
is silent pray for each other,
many of the demands, not to each other;
can be romantic, but do not waste;
`* Do not hold hands,
` * better not let go.

Men and women how to deal with jealousy

 Essence of knowledge If you're in love amongst you is easier than ever to experience jealousy. Because in love, more likely to rely more likely suspect, more likely to anxiety. Without exception, experienced people who are jealous hate it, this is not a good section of the emotional experience. Jealousy among the hurt, anger, fear, we almost hysterical. Although emotional reactions are almost identical, but the face of jealous men and women who have made a different behavioral responses.
woman easily jealous, jealous of the things worthy addition to react, but they do not exist good fantasy rival, made jealous suspicion. Compared to men, women respond more diversified jealousy, of which there are some sensible and intelligent, others are impulsive and stupid. If you are a woman, to see which direction would you make extreme behavior.
wise woman will quietly, but very hard to change. They will carefully observe the man to derail his beloved woman's features and markings in it. No matter where the other party than their own good, they will first do is allow yourself to become more beautiful and more gentle. This is a woman's instinct, the will to lose each other, and motherhood with the other person calls back. In this understanding, they seek more than their rival in the end was good, and then improve other aspects of their own or play to their strengths, to restore the lover's heart. They tried to pretend do not mind (in fact, deep down care to death), and make substantive efforts to make themselves more superior than the other.
addition, there are some women, apparently has become frenzied. They may also try to make your self beautiful, but their efforts are not in order to attract their boyfriends, but to attract other men caused their true love's jealousy. They want to fight back each other in this way, also want to prove himself in this way is very attractive, but most importantly, they want to know each other in this way is also concerned about themselves. When they caught in the sea of ​​bitterness envy, they deliberately threw some clues to her husband caught, they are deliberately acting was full of relatively loose or happy, but secretly observed their suffering is man enough to make this clear response. This woman is stupid enough, when we made a while to see what kind of man would be jealous of the response will understand, their intention and the contrary results.
, of course, whether it is wise or foolish woman a woman, no matter how diverse they are very different approach, but only one fundamental purpose - hopes to restore this relationship, want them to return to their own side.
men are very different. Compared to the survival of the relationship, they are more concerned about their self-esteem. Arouses jealousy in the story of a hopeless, they are not first consider the feelings, but the self-esteem. So they are more likely to do is heavy drinker, so that forgets himself how he is no face; or simply fight on the rival, another way to win back self-esteem; well as the most frightening possibility that they will turn to pursue another woman, but woman is different, do not for the concern caused by his first wife, but to re-conquer the other women to prove their strength and self-esteem.
All in all, as always want to save a woman's feelings, while men approach has always sad to leave the position, because for them, in addition to loss of feeling, but also lost self-esteem, and as long as the feelings of being left behind in the original One day, they can not lift the natural high head - for them, difficult to restore self-esteem more than feelings, but also more important.
Anyway, jealousy is not love of the pastime, it always will be better taken to destruction. Jealousy is not love the performance, it is just selfish portrayal. Whether man or woman, no matter what kind of reaction made, they will experience a period of bloody suffering. Therefore, men and women to understand the different reactions to jealousy is to let us know each other better, and can be more sensible to avoid the occurrence of jealousy. Jealousy, since ancient times, all across the thorn in our hearts, both male and female responses are, in the end, it brings only harm.